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May 28, 2005

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Joe Duffy

I find that the more I learn, the less I am able to communicate clearly with other people. I had thought the opposite would happen. But perhaps my studies are too esoteric--i.e. computer science and mathematics.

Unless I am able to assume a certain level of familiarity with fundamental concepts during discussion (often not possible), I never get a chance to say what I want to say, I spend too much time "pre-educating" to get to the point where a real discussion can happen. But often this process takes too long, and I don't get there. Then I am left feeling like a moron because I wasn't able to get to the point. Was the pre-education unnecessary and come across as being too elementary? Perhaps they think I'm a fool now?

I suspect this is why being a researcher and devoting your life to science in academia is a lonely life. Rarely are you able to communicate "on the same level" with another human. I wouldn't know first hand, of course, but this is my guess.

xu

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One thing that I realize is that my lack of everyday social contact does not bode well for my communication skills. I felt like I lost the ability to talk when I was in at a recent CLR dinner in Bellevue.
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Is it so bad in your life?

Drazen Dotlic

I have recently adopted a pace where I read one book a week (to clean up my backlog of bought but not read books). It's going pretty well for now (about 10 books/weeks later) but it's not easy. How do you find the time to read 150 (!) books a year?

Jason Haley

I am not doing quite as much as you, but I am also sort of hitting a wall. In the past couple of months I have tried reading non technical magazines like the economist and businessweek, then not read them the following week to see what sort of effects that information has on my ability to communicate ...

The results come down to this: reading either 1 economist or 1 businessweek magazine (most of it but not all of it) exposed me to a different style of communication and vocabulary that I am quite rusty with (I've been out of business school now for almost 10 years) ... so in the end it really helped me with my communication abilities. Mostly in the area of new ways to explain technical ideas as well as discuss non technical issues. Your results may differ, but I am now planning on getting a subscription to the economist and trying to read it every week ... problem is I don't want to give up that time of reading to non-technical information ... but I now believe it is in the best interest of my over all balance.

Toby Patke

A very interesting post.

I subscribed to this blog because you are obviously a very intelligent guy. I can see now that this is the result of a lot of hard work. The most interesting thing about this post - for me - is the last sentence. Why do you want to maximize learning? I suspect that there is something you want. Some result you expect to achieve from learning. If this is true, I would suggest reading history books. Try and find one person in history who achieved their goals through "continual" learning. Regardless of your goals, I don't think such a person exists. Everyone must take action sometime. If you want to do something innovative - then you will not be prepared for all the problems you encounter...ever.

As I say, you are a really bright guy so it feels a bit weird giving you advice, but maybe you should try being wrong more often. Take more risks.

It is funny to think that engineers don't rule the world. Why is that?

Ben

I think you need a business partner. I fear that you are caught in a trap of inaction or over thinking problems. You seem to lack direction. I hope you can find your way. Why not take a job somewhere for a while?

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